Umm Ayman: Mother After the Prophet’s Mother

During Black History Month, I have the intention of writing brief summaries, not in depth biographies, of some of the early figures in Islamic history who were black.  My usage of the word black, for the sake of what I plan on writing, will not be restricted to Nubians and Abyssinians but also for Arabs who had black and brown colored skin in which in contemporary times would be perceived as black such as Sudanese who are both Arabs and blacks.

The first luminous figure in this series that was a companion is Barakah (RA) also known as Umm Ayman.  Umm Ayman (RA) was Abyssinian and a servant of Abdullah bin Abdil Muttalib, the father of the Prophet (SAWS). When Aminah, the mother of the Prophet (SAWS) died, Umm Ayman (RA) took over as primary care-giver of the Prophet (SAWS).  Umm Ayman (RA) was later emancipated at the time of the marriage of the Prophet (SAWS) to Sayyidah Khadijah bint Khuwaylid (RA).

Umm Ayman (RA) was one of the early adherents of Islam in Makkah and was one of those who faced persecution from Quraysh.  She (RA) was among those who migrated from Makkah to Al-Madinah.

Umm Ayman’s (RA) first marriage was to Ubayd bin Zayd (RA) who was from Bani Khazraj, a prominent tribe in the Hijaz.  According to ibn Kathir in Al-Bidayah wa An-Nihayah and others, Ubayd (RA) himself was black in color or Al-Habashi though his lineage was from Bani Khazraj, a prominent Arab tribe in the Hijaz.  Umm Ayman (RA) and Ubayd (RA) bore a son named Ayman (RA) who was also black.  Ubayd (RA) was martyred at Ghazwah Khaybar, and Ayman (RA) was martyred at Ghazwah Hunayn.  Umm Ayman (RA) participated in Ghazwah Uhud and Ghazwah Khaybar.

After Ubayd’s (RA) martyrdom, it’s reported by ibn Sa’ad in At-Tabaqat Al-Kubra that the Prophet (SAWS) said to the companions that if anyone wanted to marry a lady from the People of Paradise then marry Umm Ayman (RA).  Zayd bin Harithah (RA), the man who the Prophet (SAWS) emancipated and raised like a son, was then married to Umm Ayman (RA).  Though Zayd (RA) was Arab and there are some conflicting descriptions about his physical appearance, Tanwir Al-Ghabash min Fadl Al-Sudan wa Al-Habash by ibn Al-Jawzi and others states that Zayd (RA) was short with a flat nose and had dark skin.

Umm Ayman (RA) had a particularly close relationship to Ahl al-Bayt, the Household of the Prophet (SAWS).  She shared intimate moments with Ahl al-Bayt such as being present at the marriage that the Prophet (SAWS) conducted between his daughter Sayyidah Fatimah (SA) and Imam Ali (KW).  At the time of the passing of the Prophet (SAWS), she grieved alongside Ahl al-Bayt.

There are conflicting narrations about Umm Ayman’s (RA) passing.

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Dawud Walid is currently the Executive Director of the Michigan chapter of the Council on American-Islamic Relations (CAIR-MI), which is a chapter of America's largest advocacy and civil liberties organization for American Muslims and is a member of the Michigan Muslim Community Council (MMCC) Imams Committee. Walid has been interviewed and quoted in approximately 150 media outlets ranging from the New York Times, Wall St Journal, National Public Radio, CNN, BBC, FOX News and Al-Jazeera. Furthermore, Walid was a political blogger for the Detroit News from January 2014 to January 2016, has had essays published in the 2012 book All-American: 45 American Men on Being Muslim, the 2014 book Qur'an in Conversation and was quoted as an expert in 13 additional books and academic dissertations. He was also a featured character in the 2013 HBO documentary "The Education of Mohammad Hussein." Walid has lectured at over 50 institutions of higher learning about Islam, interfaith dialogue and social justice including at Harvard University, DePaul University and the University of the Virgin Islands - St. Thomas and St. Croix campuses as well as spoken at the 2008 and 2011 Congressional Black Caucus Conventions alongside prominent speakers such as the Rev. Jesse Jackson and Congressman Keith Ellison. In 2008, Walid delivered the closing benediction at the historic 52nd Michigan Electoral College in the Michigan State Senate chambers and gave the Baccalaureate speech for graduates of the prestigious Cranbrook-Kingswood Academy located in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan. Walid was also a featured speaker at the 2009 and 2010 Malian Peace and Tolerance Conferences at the University of Bamako in Mali, West Africa. He has also given testimony at hearings and briefings in front of Michigan state legislators and U.S. congressional representatives, including speaking before members of the Congressional Hispanic Caucus in Washington, D.C. Walid has studied under qualified scholars the disciplines of Arabic grammar and morphology, foundations of Islamic jurisprudence, sciences of the exegesis of the Qur’an, and Islamic history during the era of Prophet Muhammad through the governments of the first 5 caliphs. He previously served as an imam at Masjid Wali Muhammad in Detroit and the Bosnian American Islamic Center in Hamtramck, Michigan, and continues to deliver sermons and lectures at Islamic centers across the United States and Canada. Walid was a 2011 - 2012 fellow of the University of Southern California (USC) American Muslim Civil Leadership Institute (AMCLI) and a 2014 - 2015 fellow of the Wayne State Law School Detroit Action Equity Lab (DEAL). Walid served in the United States Navy under honorable conditions earning two United States Navy & Marine Corp Achievement medals while deployed abroad. He has also received awards of recognition from the city councils of Detroit and Hamtramck and from the Mayor of Lansing as well as a number of other religious and community organizations.

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